Tackling Tough Decisions By Majorie Harvey

One of the pros to adulthood is that we have the freedom to do much of what we want to do. We get to make our own decisions, go where we want, eat what we want, hang out with who we want.This privilege also comes with the con of having to make very difficult decisions.
We all have them. Sometimes we know they are on the horizon and we can prepare for them, other times, they hit us suddenly and require our immediate attention. If we are married or are parents, they are multiplied ten thousand times over. Whatever the details of our surrounding circumstances, the decisions we each make impact and, at times, directly effect the lives of other people.
There are three golden rules I like to rely on when tackling difficult decisions. Some of you may be facing something now and I pray you find these suggestions helpful.
1. I make sure I have as much of the facts, details, and information as possible. This may require me to do a bit more investigating, but being well-informed is an essential first step in critical thinking.
2. I seek wise council. I share the information, questions, and concerns with trusted experts and loved ones who understand my heart and are spiritually invested in my success as well.
3. I sit quietly and listen to that inner voice that provides guidance. Sometimes, God speaks in a small voice, other times, divine direction is given through a strong sense of intuition. Either way, I’ve learned the value of being still and listening for that inner compass to guide me.
Sometimes, there is only time for the latter option. Ultimately, however, I trust that the same grace that has brought me through trying times in the past and allowed me to land on my feet will be there once more in my time of need. I have no doubt the same will be true for you! Be encouraged.